Not Just a Stepmom - Heidi Farrell

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When a Kid Just Wants Dad

“Just Dad can come in. I am really mad.” Knowing that I am a stepmom, you might assume that this note was left for me by a disgruntled stepchild. You might assume that, as the stepmom, I had done something to upset the child. Or you might think that Dad Read more…

By Heidi Farrell, 5 yearsMay 23, 2020 ago
For All Moms

5 Steps to Keep Your Sanity When The Kids Are Fighting All Day!

You’ve been stuck inside your four walls for a while now during quarantine. You’ve been making extra meals, dolling out extra snacks, cleaning up extra piles and possibly even homeschooling the kids. Maybe you’re working from home, or trying to parent the kids from your workplace via cell phone. You Read more…

By Heidi Farrell, 5 yearsApril 18, 2020 ago
For All Moms

How On Earth Are We Supposed to Maintain Friendships During Quarantine?

But alas, unless you remain 6-feet apart to uphold social-distancing standards, the prospect of seeing our mom friends in person will be like watching that last pack of toilet paper get snatched out of your grasp on aisle four!

By Heidi Farrell, 5 yearsApril 11, 2020 ago
For All Moms

The Undone-Done Household

I got up well before the sun rose. I washed dishes, emptied the dishwasher, wiped the table from last night’s crumbs, the ones left over from dinner before we raced out the door. As the sun was rising, I picked up stray items, tidied surfaces, did a load of laundry. Read more…

By Heidi Farrell, 5 yearsMarch 3, 2020 ago
For All Moms

When We Feel Like Our Story Isn’t Valuable Enough To Share

Have you ever been deeply touched by someone’s story? Touched to the point that it changes your outlook on life or causes you see your situation differently? Maybe you even see God differently afterward? When I started writing about my stepmom journey, I often felt anxious when I realized that Read more…

By Heidi Farrell, 5 yearsMarch 3, 2020 ago
step relationships
For All Moms

When I Just Don’t Know How To Pray

“I know I should pray about this, but I don’t know where to start. I’m just so confused.”  Sound familiar?  Sometimes the thoughts swirling around our heads are just too tangled up to eloquently put to words in a prayer that makes any sense.  So we give up trying.   Read more…

By Heidi Farrell, 5 yearsDecember 13, 2019 ago
For All Moms

A Season For Everything

There were so many nights that I stayed up late cleaning well after everyone was in bed, just so we didn’t have to start out each new day in a house full of dirty dishes, crumbs and toys strewn across the floor. “There is a season for everything…” As stepmoms Read more…

By Heidi Farrell, 6 yearsNovember 10, 2019 ago
For All Moms

Love Is In the Little Things

I made my husband late for work today. As I handed him his egg sandwich on his way to get his shoes on, he told me there was a huge spider that ran behind the oven that I might want to kill. “You have to kill it before you go,” Read more…

By Heidi Farrell, 6 yearsNovember 1, 2019 ago
For All Moms

Here’s What To Do When The Word “Failure” Slips Into Your Vocabulary

“I’ve been feeling like a failure lately…and it hurts.” These were the words that caught my eye as I was mindlessly scrolling through my news feed. And out of sadness for this person, I wondered what kind of words had been swirling through their mind day in and day out. Read more…

By Heidi Farrell, 6 yearsNovember 1, 2019 ago
For All Moms

The Missing Candy: An Alzheimer’s Journey

He reached into the candy bowl and pulled out an attractive-looking item. Once it was in his hand, however, he realized it was just an empty wrapper. The guilty culprit was a frail, elderly woman holding a bowl on her lap while biting into a chocolate bar, letting empty wrappers Read more…

By Heidi Farrell, 6 yearsNovember 1, 2019 ago

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Welcome!

Hi!  I’m Heidi Farrell and this is my awesome family, in all of our mess and goodness!  My stepdaughter is 24, my stepson is 21 and my bio kids are 10, 8, and 6, whom I homeschool.  My husband and I are both classically-trained musicians, and we love to travel, camp, make music, and serve our community.

As a life coach, I absolutely love coaching, listening to, and guiding stepmoms and moms. And I also love coaching couples. We all need someone we can trust when we aren’t sure what each day brings.

In my coaching, I offer encouragement, support, and practical tools to apply to help bring peace and harmony into your heart and stepfamily. I understand what it looks like to be a fulltime stepmom, and also a stepmom who brought babies into the family.

When it comes to my journey as a stepmom these last 11+ years, I’ve learned that honesty is the best way to break down the misconception that we are alone in facing the struggles that come from blended family life. Book a free 15-minute discovery call today!

Take a look at some of my blog posts while you’re here. You’ll see my journey as a stepmom and what I have learned along the way…and what I’m still learning everyday!

Why the name “Not Just a Stepmom?” Well, you are NOT just a stepmom (even when that role often feels like the dominant one!).  You are a dearly loved child of God. I’m a biological mom, too, and the same thing applies to those of you who aren’t stepmoms!  Join me here, sign up for my mailing list, follow me on social media, and discover just a little more of what that means for your life.

Check out Our Story to see how it all began!

And be sure to like my Facebook page Not Just a Stepmom for stepmom community engagement and many other stories I don’t post here!

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